Merry Christmas!

How did you guys spent your Christmas?

I had a jolly good one this year!

That's Yuki as Santa and me as Santarina

More updates to come!

=)

Company's Christmas Dinner Party

Had our company's Christmas Dinner party at The Hills at Damansara Heights last Friday. Everyone was in the company's shirt and we hat lil red Christmas hats to wear too.

Lots and lots of food, and super lots of boozes!

Had lots of fun that night, luckily I decided not to drive that day coz I knew I was going to be too drunk.

Anyway, less words, more photos. here you go~

Me and Ira.

Designer Du, Editor Widya, and Marketing Manager Jason.

The Agent Sales team!

Event Manager Katherine and Jason.

Designer Du again.

Everyone's going nuts!

Group picture!

Awesome night, it won't be the last.

Ben's KLCC has poor quality service

I went to Ben's for the first time today in KLCC.

The food were overall good, if not, perfect. But the service is really bad.

We waited at the front door for so long until someone finally came and welcomed us to our seat. Then we had to wave our hands frantically before getting a waiter to finally come and take our orders. By the time the waitress finally came to our table, she took our orders as if she was trying to catch a train. Right after each of us ordered our food, she took away the menu instantly. I felt like I needed to order quickly before she leaves our table or I would have to wave my hands frantically again to get someone to take my orders.

Service was really slow and bad, the waiter and waitress were not friendly, and doesn't seem to welcome us as guests at all.

I would love to introduce my friends to Ben's as the food is great. But I don't think I will as the service is really bad.

To be honest, I would rather go for a restaurant with average food and great service, than a restaurant with great food and lousy service.

We ARE paying the service tax after all.

The last thing a girl wants is to be proven right.

Here's one of those posts...

I'm sure everyone knows how we girls tend to "think too much", "make up stories" in our minds, and of coz, blaming everything on the guys even though they've done nothing wrong - yet.

You see, every time a girl gets jealous, or sulk over a matter, the last thing she wants is for you to prove her right (although she doesn't want to be proven wrong either). But trust me, she wants to be proven wrong more than she wants to be proven right (although it never seems that way). Confusing, I know, but try to follow me.

For example, when your GF gets jealous of you getting too closely with another girl (which you have absolutely nothing going on with), the last thing she wants is for you to prove her right, that you are having something going on with the other girl.

Let me paint the picture clearer for you, I'll tell you my very own story.

I've gotten jealous over other girls numerous times that it's impossible for me to keep count. Yes, I am that insecure, but of coz I blame it on the guys for not being able to give me the emotional security that I needed. But I'd rather blame myself for being over sensitive and insecure, than to find out one day, that I was right to be jealous.

Let's make it even clearer.

I used to have this BF whom was nice looking, sociable, smart, and overall, what most girls would be attracted to. The thing about having guys like these as a BF is that, there are bound to be other girls lurking around trying their luck (he denies it all the way, but hey, that's what it felt like to me).

So trying to reason with him regarding this matter was a vain as it ended up into a heated argument like always. Things got bad that eventually both of us headed with our own ways, which I felt it was a blessing in disguise. At least we're now both free of our own emotional torture.

Back to the topic, girls doesn't want to be proven right.

I was jealous over this girl whom I shall name her as Rose for the ease of your understanding. Rose was tall, slim and pretty. Never knew her well but she's the kind of girl that guys would go gaga over at first glance. Rose was very friendly, over friendly in my opinion, but not to my ex BF, whom I shall name him as Thorn.

Thorn and I had several heated arguments because of Rose. I was the type of girl who feels insecure about myself, and other pretty ladies, I still think I am. Thorn always sided her and insisted I over think things, which is why reasoning with him never worked, it was always my fault.

So things have ended quite some time now and we've both moved on. But the question is, was I right or wrong for "over thinking" things?

I was proven right today, that being jealous and "over thinking" things between Rose and Thorn was justifiable. Saw multiple pictures that spoke more than a million words.

One last question, despite being proven right at last, why do I feel such disappointment?

So now that I've finished my story, I guess it's easier for you to understand that no girls wants to be proven right. The reason they get jealous or insecure is because they care too much about you that it scares them. Yes, they might not be handling their emotions in a proper way, but it's your part to help them. It's your part to show your loved ones that it is okay to feel jealous, that it is okay to "over think" things. But most importantly, it is your part to prove them wrong.

I made cupcakes!

I know I said I'll blog more often, but the truth is, I'm just too busy with my life.

Sometimes when I finally have the time to write something, I feel like the time is better off used by relaxing myself.

I took a day off yesterday and guess what?

I made cupcakes!

Nice? =p

I made 3 boxes of these.

It was really hard work and time consuming but it's the self satisfaction that makes it all worth while.

And it tastes yummy too!