tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post1410402503716379810..comments2009-12-15T11:35:04.932+08:00JunJun-Rikohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16073407892206646102noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-85897401866295988002009-12-15T02:34:21.520+08:002009-12-15T02:34:21.520+08:00OOOH.. don&#39;t envy me!!<br /><br />hehe.. i had my share of heartaches.. arguments etc too with the bf!<br /><br />but value ur 3 diff experience with the 3 diff guy... and appreciate the good u have from the rship and learn from the mistakes =)<br /><br />life&#39;s a FOREVER learning process.. even now, my bf also have to learn to work things out etc..<br /><br />maybe the one is already right before ur very eyes.. but u re not seeing it just yet.. in due time.. try not to fret but make the best out of singlehood k.<br /><br />and ask ur friends to intro potential bfs?? hehe.. a lot of my guy friends keep asking me to intro girls.. but most of my friends have bfs.. and for me, i also dun want to simply intro.. hoi sei ppl not good right =pgoingkookieshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00285928510244722787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-15471075038917995392009-12-14T21:41:52.435+08:002009-12-14T21:41:52.435+08:00oh wow , that&#39;a a bit cruel eh -.-&quot; but definitely does the job~~Lanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05708280458635424026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-61368068560936750262009-12-14T10:39:34.711+08:002009-12-14T10:39:34.711+08:00CL:<br />yup true. they complaint coz they&#39;re still looking for someone better. even though they think that their partner is not &quot;The One&quot;, they don wanna let go, coz they&#39;re having a gf/bf just for the sake of having one.<br /><br />jason lcE:<br />haha yup.. n i&#39;ve heard it for like a gazillion times. XD<br /><br />kruel74:<br />awwww... so sweet.. u should tell your wife in her face... sure she feel very manis. =p<br /><br />rin:<br />how can u not have a lawn??? lawn means your attraction towards the opposite gender/ your wants to be loved by someone. =)<br /><br />ashleyteng:<br />hoi... u don emo bersama-sama me la.. LOL...<br /><br />nn:<br />ya... some people don even get to be with their loved ones... yet these ppl are complaining all the time.<br /><br />Lan:<br />the mow and pour cement part, is almost equivalent to discarding all wants of being loved by someone or all wants to be in a relationship. Converting yourself to be a nun or a monk would be like mowing and pour cement over your lawn. =) or you can suicide, if that&#39;s one of the choice you prefer. LOL. jkjk.<br /><br />RKCG:<br />even though u&#39;re in a difficult relationship right now, i have never heard you complaint bout prefer to be single. kudos to u and all the best. =)<br /><br />jayce:<br />ya exactly... but sometimes the loneliness is very tormenting... T___T<br /><br />cnigel:<br />eh i thought i all along matured...? u childish only ma... hahahahaha...<br /><br />goingkookies:<br />awwww... now im envious towards you... u&#39;ve never really been single... i&#39;ve been in and out of 3 relationships now and it&#39;s not something im proud of either... if time could turn back, i&#39;d just skip all 3 and wait for &quot;The One&quot;. =(<br /><br />keatsan:<br />thank you... =)<br /><br />Vel:<br />ya... it hurts to hear even when it was meant as a joke. =) thanks for your wishes.. let&#39;s pray together for me. LOL.<br /><br />spinzer:<br />but i don love u wor how? u still owe me ice creams leh...<br /><br />chauss:<br />haha... =) just suddenly felt the urge to write that.<br /><br />fleevz:<br />haha.. seems like alot of ppl also like the last saying ler. =)JunJun-Rikohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16073407892206646102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-21697269393904613712009-12-13T20:31:03.278+08:002009-12-13T20:31:03.278+08:00Totally agree with ur post..in fact, earthling most of them are just unsatisfied with what they got..I LOVE UR LAST SAY <br /><br />&quot; If you can&#39;t grow your grass greener than the other side of the fence, mowed them all and pour cement over your lawn. Problem solved. XDXD &quot;..once and for all~..ahhaha..FLeeVzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05687545583144104062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-24554311467641839432009-12-13T19:45:55.077+08:002009-12-13T19:45:55.077+08:00THUMBS UP~<br />WELL SAID~~<br />this must b some catalysis suddenly kick in.<br />Totally agree with&#39;yachauss11-dunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-65089107180878572202009-12-13T19:11:18.064+08:002009-12-13T19:11:18.064+08:00You&#39;re awesome, I love you.§pinzerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12143184155594986333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-39690523066327784942009-12-13T02:36:33.180+08:002009-12-13T02:36:33.180+08:00I mentioned that once in my blog and he got a little mad when he read it. It was mentioned as a joke. But I guess it&#39;s kinda hurt his feelings.<br /><br />So ya, I will never say that again. I really enjoy being with him for the past 5 years and it will continue to be. :)<br /><br />Hope you&#39;ll get to meet your the one soon. And live happily ever after. :)_VeL_http://www.blogger.com/profile/17313814102425451425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-48125681268586707752009-12-12T11:56:29.416+08:002009-12-12T11:56:29.416+08:00*claps claps*<br /><br />First time I accidentally link to this blog and I&#39;ve come across a truthful fact about a post.<br /><br />This is a nice post wonderful about being single when you&#39;re single or &#39;wanting&#39; to be single.<br /><br />Yet again, I enjoyed reading this post. Every words as I read through portraits the situation of most people they are facing.<br /><br />Kudos Jun²-RikoKeatsanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01424481386272667091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-24865641296449379622009-12-12T11:22:01.266+08:002009-12-12T11:22:01.266+08:00as u said, the grass is always greener on the other side.. =p<br /><br />i have been with my bf since high school, so i haven&#39;t exactly been what u would say as SINGLE.. <br /><br />however, as he is overseas, i m attached yet single with no bf to hang kai kai with etc... and it does get lonely with no hugs and a hand to hold. So, i do get the lonely bit. <br /><br />But I realised with him not around, I don&#39;t depend on him so much and learn to be more independent. I have to force myself to socialise with others and make new friends.<br /><br />i would say to single friends is.. don&#39;t rush to get into a relationship for the sake of easing the loneliness cos that will just open doors to heartache.<br /><br />but maybe u could try to look at it as with u being single for now, u have more time for ur self, friends and thinks u want to do. <br /><br />i m sure u have loads u want to accomplished or focus on right?<br /><br />and when u have a bf later on, u&#39;ll have less time for all of these, somehow.<br /><br />plus, being in a relationship isn&#39;t easy. there will always be the arguments and misunderstanding. the couple has to see the need to want to work out the issues and manage each other&#39;s expectations.<br /><br />but most ppl nowadays seem to be following hollywood style. get together, say &quot;i love you&quot;s then break up and move on to the next person.<br /><br />anyways, i do hope u can find someone caring &amp; mature soon!! don&#39;t give up but don&#39;t rush it!!<br /><br />ps: u r right, ppl shouldn complain when in a rship. if don&#39;t like, break up n stay single. not fair to the other party... really hate ppl who use othersgoingkookieshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00285928510244722787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-3285154836689059092009-12-12T11:17:39.032+08:002009-12-12T11:17:39.032+08:00wah...suddenly becom so matured edi ar....can think like a grown up now.. me like<br /><br />&quot;If you can&#39;t grow your grass greener than the other side of the fence, mowed them all and pour cement over your lawn. Problem solved. XDXD&quot;Cnigelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04068488454633762711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-62404512066999771852009-12-12T10:30:09.743+08:002009-12-12T10:30:09.743+08:00No matter single or not. Just be yourself. Make sure that you are happy all the time. ^_^Jaycehttp://www.jayceooi.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-25975749266174765172009-12-12T10:06:24.941+08:002009-12-12T10:06:24.941+08:00yah u r right..better appreciate a relationship..loneliness kills me.. god..i freaking hate my position right now..in a relationship but still all alone..RKCGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08516184803861444428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-41828960899706744332009-12-12T00:42:32.134+08:002009-12-12T00:42:32.134+08:00ah yess , another interesting and beautiful post . <br /><br />i agree with the comment from CL on everything has pros and cons . Nothing can be perfect right ? They say the best relationship is filled with quarrels and difference of opinions . <br /><br />and yes I find ur concluding saying very interesting. Can u actually describe the real-life analogy on the part where u mow and pour cement ? I would like to hear it :DLanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05708280458635424026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-27690997390255186242009-12-12T00:18:28.402+08:002009-12-12T00:18:28.402+08:00sooo true!! everybody have problems no matter what their relationship status are. be grateful lah people!nnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06632845736747683925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-6890567029884875402009-12-11T19:55:44.861+08:002009-12-11T19:55:44.861+08:00these ppl will never understand how we single girls think wann la. i understand the loneliness u felt.Ashleytenghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17941801424114834105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-3846028466202954302009-12-11T19:25:37.358+08:002009-12-11T19:25:37.358+08:00<i>If you can&#39;t grow your grass greener than the other side of the fence, mowed them all and pour cement over your lawn. Problem solved.</i><br /><br />LahMAO~!<br />so what if i dont even have a lawn?<br />xD[rin]http://www.blogger.com/profile/08208131101829102493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-85007770663453608612009-12-11T17:40:53.509+08:002009-12-11T17:40:53.509+08:00Am happy in a relationship and wanna stay in it forevah.... One day u will find yours too. The grass is greener quotes are very good...LOL...kruel74http://www.blogger.com/profile/04859476049440029616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-77003414066694937942009-12-11T15:59:05.664+08:002009-12-11T15:59:05.664+08:00Haha. In my case, I&#39;m happily attached for 6 years already and I haven&#39;t regretted even a single bit. I went thru so many years of LDR (not ending yet) and of course we had arguments here n there. I guess ppl who are attached claim that singles are better because they aren&#39;t satisfied with their partner especially when they start to compare their partners with others&#39; and vice versa. But everything has pros and cons. It&#39;s just how you look at it. Cheers! :) Btw, I was the girl who asked u about the eyeliner thingin fb. haha. Thanks and I bought the eyeliner d! :DCLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05826386224592959616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-21464703599998994492009-12-11T15:29:39.068+08:002009-12-11T15:29:39.068+08:00Yupez.. that is always a common answer from someone who is already attached...JaSoN LCE®http://www.blogger.com/profile/11016331024755463489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-58869871861611313522009-12-11T14:38:56.257+08:002009-12-11T14:38:56.257+08:00Michelle:<br />ya la... hate it when ppl say single is the best to me when they&#39;re in a relationship... terus potong stim make me don wanna talk to them.<br /><br />JAI:<br />haha.. no la i din marah with someone la... but it&#39;s true wutt... hahaha... terus pour cement over it can edi.<br /><br />Blue:<br />grass only ar??? flower u don want? we can go chop together for plants. =p<br /><br />wei keen:<br />haha u&#39;re not the 1st wor.. just that my comment moderator haven&#39;t approved the previous comments b4 u.. =p<br /><br />smashpop:<br />fuiyoh... smashpop on my blog wor... XDXD<br /><br />josh:<br />u don wish u r single now then is a good thing la... if u say u wish u r single now, no need me to whack u also la, jess will do it. haha.<br /><br />justin:<br />true.. but it&#39;s coz they care then only they&#39;re over protective and gets jealous. so it&#39;s everyone&#39;s responsibility to not allow their partner to have any reasons to feel insecure/jealous. =)<br /><br />philip:<br />haha, good, next time u pray remember pray for me ar. XDXDJunJun-Rikohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16073407892206646102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-86582222141888728782009-12-11T14:13:43.527+08:002009-12-11T14:13:43.527+08:00hie! came over to your blog from taufulou&#39;s blog :)<br />and i must say i totally whole heartedly agree with what you just wrote! especially that last pouring cement part :PLingziehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01964496831005963562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-34118892625035934892009-12-11T14:11:50.066+08:002009-12-11T14:11:50.066+08:00Salute , very very damn true!keNtzaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01823800201351706164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-4518681665911531962009-12-11T14:07:53.593+08:002009-12-11T14:07:53.593+08:00hahaha, good one :)Ruehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14734328816664506159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-43794203882739613352009-12-11T12:34:55.021+08:002009-12-11T12:34:55.021+08:00The last sentence is epic! haha<br /><br />I do appreciate the relationship that I&#39;m having now and I hope you can find one soon! <br /><br />all the best! ^^Philip Foon Weng Lianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09592932205062578204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744668714166075591.post-56616796076905678772009-12-11T12:21:24.080+08:002009-12-11T12:21:24.080+08:00i think problems in a relationship is often caused by over-protectiveness of your partner and jealousy..justin_5http://www.blogger.com/profile/16793288101819714232noreply@blogger.com