What's the meaning of friendship? How do you judge the importance of a friendship? How do you determine which friend is more important than the other? Are you even suppose to do that?
A friend is only important when they treat you as importantly as you treat them. Otherwise, they're just pieces of shit altogether. - JJR
You know how some people think that they're closer to one friend so they tend to side them more? For example, people side on friends they've known for years rather than friends they've just met for a year. People also tend to side on friends they spend most of their time with instead of friends they only keep in touch with once in awhile.
I'm not saying it's wrong, I'm saying it's normal to do so.
But lately I have my own questions to a gang of friends I thought I knew very well off. They turned out to be nothing but a disappointment. I'm not the main actress in the movie right now, but rather someone who's watching the movie. Even though I'm just a bystander, I just couldn't help but to feel pissed off.
Sometimes it's not so much about friendship, but also morality, and your character. Sometimes if you think only of friendship regardless of morality, it makes you less worthy of a person. Especially when your action affects another friend.
So much of years of friendship, but when it came down to the critical matter, they've all just turned into pieces of shit. Jerks, as a matter of fact.
I don't care how they explain or what excuses they manage to come up with for themselves to feel better, they're just pieces of shitless jerks that I regret knowing.
Because the person they hurt, is a friend I care about.
7 comments:
"Perfection is achieved not when there's nothing more to add but when there's nothing to be taken away"
It's just like friendship, In a relationship, achieving near perfection is not when you have many friends but when there's no friend you can take away
To me, in this world, there are only good friends, but there is no such thing called "true friends". Because everyone's got their own self-interest, specially in this adult world. It's one shallow world to live in man.
ya, i agree with u about this.. friends are a pile of shit actually.. whenever u try to get close to someone, u'll feel dissapointed when u realise that the person don wan u to get close n say u're a nuissance.. i am a guy, whenever i try to get close to a female, the female always rejects me, as if it was a sin for me to get near girls.. hey, i'm stil single n available, even i fall in love in someone, that's not wrong right? but those girls just straight away avoided me, it's just like 'this is the end of our friendship' just after i try to get close to a girl..
speaking about friends, they tend to forget us whenever they have girlfriend, it pissed me off actually, n i couldn't have one girlfriend but seeing me losing another friend just because he has a girlfriend..
can u feel my fury? friends are wonderful to play together during childhood, but when u grow into an adult, friends tend to leave u..
Fumina hARA:
i couldn't agree more.
victor:
again, sad true facts bout life. sigh...
anonymous:
i get what u mean. sometimes the word "friend" is so meaningless. like it's nothing but a word. i hate it the most when friends betray you when you needed them the most.
hey jun,
friednship...to me, is 'yi hei' ... help them when they need, attend to them if they r in trouble.
via:
then what will u do if it was 2 friends involved? will u side with the one you've known longer/closer with, or will you depend on the situation?
these ppl im talking bout chose sides based on how long the friendship is instead of doing the right thing. which I despise alot.
ya, and i got a case here too.. whenever i go n ask help from fren, they wil always give response like 'can't u try to settle urself n don depend on ppl?', 'can't u be matured n settle urself?' or 'try to settle urself n don always need spoon feed' n so on such responses.. it pisses me off most of the time, n when i say something, they say i am immature n always complain.. is it a matured person must try n settle every problem by himself or herself is it? can't ask help is it?
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