Starting the post with a picture.

This is just another random photo of myself.
Enough narcissism, but here's the topic of the day. I'm sure most girls out there have had at least 1 suitor who didn't end up being their bf. So have you ever wonder what it would be like if you had just given him the chance?
I'm just sharing and not bragging, but I've had quite a few suitors since I turned 16. The suitors stop coming when I turned 21-22. I guess it's the age, I'm too old. LOL. Anyway, I'm still in contact with some of the suitors, who are now my friends, some I have them on Facebook but we don't contact each other.
Now the thing is, I've been browsing through Facebook alot lately coz I'm just that lifeless at home. It struck me that most of these guys are now happily involved in a relationship, or at least in a relationship regardless happy or not. Then I got to see those lovey doey photos of them with their gf. So it got me wondering, what could have been if I just went along with that guy? Would the girl in the photos be me?
It's not that I regret letting the guys go, I don't. I appreciate the time we had together but I don't regret my decision. I'm happy that they're happy. Still, I can't help to wonder, what could have been if I had just went along with him?
Most of the time it didn't work out coz the feeling just didn't felt right at the moment, not because they're lousy or not good enough. So these guys are actually all nice guys that girls can actually date, but I got to know them at the wrong time.
So what could have been? Hmmmm...





7 comments:
I got a feeling most girls think like you too. :)
yea i think like that too sometimes...but what to do, probably they are not the right person for us or else we would have been stuck with them until the end...
that's why they say true love happen with the right person at the right time.. perhaps your right person and right timing aren't here yet... just wait.. true love is worth it for a wait.. but sometimes if a guy is suitable but just lacking of a bit that kinda feel.. perhaps can give a chance.. must grab the chance cuz who knows one day he left and you feel sad but already too late.. we don't want this to happen right.. follow your heart.. =D
sometimes when it's not time for you, then it's not yours. Coz I always believe God will prepare a better one for you :)
hmm ... i kinda wonder ... what if one of the guys still wanna be with you for after so long ... will you still accept them now ... ??
Jillian:
i wonder if some girls regret letting anyone go in the past...
alice:
ya i guess so...
ashley:
i read ur comment and instantly i feel that u're talking bout a specific someone. hahahaha...
vicky:
let's just hope so. =)
anonymous:
ermmm... i dunno... i guess it all depends on the feeling.
i regret not being brave enough to take the chance...
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