Average Jane

The other day I was just thinking bout some stuff and it came across my mind. How is it that some decent girls who are average looking never even gets a chance with the guys? It's like they have absolutely no guys going after them at all since they were born. FYI I'm talking bout young ladies age between 18-26.

I know quite a lot of girls who are in my opinion, smart, from a good family, decent, proper, well behaved, and most certainly not ugly at all who are still single and has never once been gone after by a guy. I'm not saying that it's a must that any girl should have a courter, it's just that why is it that there's not even one guy interested in girls like them?

I've seen girls who are less qualified as in those who doesn't have a proper attitude/personality with lotsa bad habits having more courters than you can imagine. What are the guys thinking?

Aside from those girls who are easy, as in they are willing to put out (have sexual intercourse) easily, and not discussing bout one's appearance or attitude, I think attractiveness is one of the main thing that keeps the guys going after a girl.

Now we're gonna discuss solely about girls who are average overall. Let's face it, out of 10 girls you'd see in a restaurant, only bout 1-2 would be considered as pretty, and sometimes, 10 out of 10 would be the normal average Jane. So if you look average, you can't afford to have an average personality and you most certainly can't afford to behave average.

Being average means being normal. Being normal means blending in. Imagine yourself blending in with another 50 average Jane in a party/dinner you're at. Now ask yourself this, if this was an average Joe amongst 50 other average Joe, would you even notice him?

The same theory applies for the girls. Guys look at appearance first, every guy does. If you're an average Jane, you've got the 50% in your hand, whether they'll be interested in you, or they won't. The thing is, if they do not notice you, you will never have a chance to earn the remaining 50%. Get what I mean?

There are just too many average Jane out there, and if you do not find a way to make your personality pop, no one will notice you.

True case scenario: I have a guy friend who's been in the same class with the same girl for almost 3 years, but he doesn't even know she existed. Why? Coz she was an average Jane. She wasn't ugly nor weird, wasn't pretty nor unique, she was average and normal, just like all the rest of the girls in the class.

Being different is not being weird, or the odd one out. Being different, means being memorable. Trust me, you'd want to be memorable instead of forgetable.

This post is getting too long, so I'll write a post next bout how an average Jane can transform herself into being someone unique, and not just another average Jane.

Stay tuned. =)