This morning while I was in class (yes I went to class today), I read an article in a Chinese newspaper, forgot what paper was it already. Anyway, this article, it mention that a girl sometimes deliberately be late on a date just so she can test his patience and his love towards her.
WTF???!!!
What sort of sane human would do such things? If you're reading this post of mine, and you do deliberately be late on dates, here's what I have to say to you.
WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?!
I mean, what logic is there of you being late allows you to access your guy's love/patience towards you? Come on la, it's not even sensible to be late at all.
I for once, hate people who are late. If you know you're the kind of person who can't be on time, please promise a later time instead of being late. I hate people who make me wait. It's alright if the person is late bout 5-10 minutes, but 15 minutes is all I can take. Anything more that that I would be so dulan at the person by the time he/she arrives.
There was this time that a friend dated me out in Times Square. I was there bout 10 minutes earlier so I thought I'd just wait. Then it was 5 minutes after the promised time, being impatient as I am, I gave her call to see how long would I still need to wait. She only answered me "on the way edi" when I asked for her location. That pissed me off quite a bit. So I waited. Then it was 30 minutes pass the promised time. I called again, and still she told me she was on the way. Eff ar?!!! 30 minutes still on the way, coming from Negeri Sembilan meh? In the end she arrived 1 hour and 25 minutes after the promised time. I was so pissed I didn't even talk to her until an hour later. And this was a girl, if it was a guy, I would've chopped off his LJ right on the spot.
I know some of you really like to do things taking your own sweet time. What's the rush? Enjoy life. Right? It's a wonderful thing if we are able to do things on our own pace and not rush ourselves. That is if you're the one being late. Imagine if you're all ready and waiting and the other person is late coz they're busy taking their own sweet time. So now how? You're time is wasted waiting for the other person coz they're late!
Time is precious. Once it's gone, it's gone for good. So why should one's time be wasted on the expense of another who simply take too much of their own sweet time?
If you're not fond of people being late and you hate waiting for people, don't be late yourself.
I effing hate people who are late. Seriously.
9 comments:
That is why I need a Wifi phone. If my friends late 30 mins, I go online lo. xD
junjun, I totally understand your feelings. I am hardly late for anything, be it meeting, dinner, or party, but Malaysians are too used to being late. I always have to wait! But I guess I am more patient now than I was before.
My ex used to apologize to me when she was late for only 2 minutes. Girls have to know that being patient to you doesn't mean how much they like you. Guys can also be very patient when they just want to get laid.
same here
that is why our economy never grows
i hate myself being late so I do hate people who is late! :P
LOL. i waited half and hour the most.
but ur's friend were super super late lor, i dun even dare to make myself so godamn late. D:
Oh no...You hate me :(
I think I was very late on our first date too. and most of it?
But I think your friend more gua cheong..1.5 hours still on the way? or the fella jam is it?
victor:
i cant afford to go online with my phone leh... lol.
lim:
agreed!!!
rodney:
too much malaysian time.
henry:
lol me too.
hermoine:
ya lor.. think bout last time also dulan. =.=
cathy:
ya lor.. u also always late one. =.=" that fren took the ktm one la.. dunno y so late... =.=
I always reach to meeting area at least 10mins earlier.. Dun like to keep the other party waiting.. But sometime end up I'll be the one waiting damn long..
good pose but cant comment much.
guilty as charge.
point taken.
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