Guys like to ask girls what type of guy do they like. And the girls tend to answer the question very generally, especially me. Coz I don't seem to see the point of me answering the question when I know it is most certainly impossible to find that kind of guy.
Let's start off with the basics...
I want a guy who is taller than me.
A guy who is intellectually compatible or better than me.
A guy who's looks need not be like a superstar, just compatible with me will do. (Coz I hate it when people start commenting that the gf looks better than the bf or other wise.)
A guy who can speak fluent English.
A guy who dresses up appropriately according to occasions.
A guy who is goal directed and does his best in everything he does.
A guy who has a good future.
A guy who can manage himself well.
A guy who is matured and doesn't make silly jokes (coz I'm a really uptight person).
Then the add ons...
A guy who puts me before others (friends, family and stuff) just so I'll know he loves me.
A guy who shows interest in what I have to say and wants to share stuff with me just so I'll know he wants me to be a part of his life.
A guy who can't wait to hear my voice when he opens his eyes just so I'll know each morning that he still loves me the way he did yesterday.
A guy who would think of me when he is happy or sad just so I'll know I am a part of him.
A guy who thinks I'm the most beautiful girl in the world just so I'll know he belongs to me whole heartedly.
A guy who is patient with me even when I sulk for no reasons just so I'll know he cares.
A guy who would kiss and hug me even when I push him away just so I'll know he would always be there for me no matter what.
A guy who stands by my side no matter what others say about me just so I'll know he believes in me.
A guy who will never ever flirt with any other girls just so I'll know he would never hurt me.
A guy who will never lie to my face just so I'll know I can trust him.
A guy who will do whatever he can to make me happy just so I'll know he would protect me.
A guy who will make time for me even if he's darn busy just so I'll know I'm important to him.
A guy who doesn't mind bringing me on dates even when there's no particular reasons just so I'll know he wants the whole world to know I'm his.
A guy who will never make me wait just so I'll know I can rely on him.
A guy who tries to understand the thing that I care about just so I'll know he is trying.
A guy who would sing to me just because I want him to just so I'll know he is sweet to me.
A guy who would eat the food I cook even if it tasted awful just so I'll know he would never upset me.
A guy who will never stop loving me no matter what I do or say just so I'll know I loved the right guy in the first place.
This guy doesn't exist in real life btw.
23 comments:
Wow. There's a guy like that out there. But he'll only do that on the beginning stage. That's what my bf did. Then, when things getting used to it, he doesn't do it as often as he did.
But I know he's still the one for me. =)
You'll find your perfect one soon! Or maybe it's already right in front of you? =)
surprisingly whatever u wrote above except for 2 criterias, my bf got the rest of it. The missing ones included height (he's same height) and good fortune (well, both of us still studying though)and now i learn to appreciate him more than anything after reading what u wrote. After so long, i tend to forget he's perfect to me. Thank you very very much jun jun =)
ps : first time commenting even though i read your blog for years already..
Perfect itself is imperfection.
even ur father also cant fit the description
can continue dream on it, don't set the target so high 5 la
i want my perfect guy too. *waiting*
*waiting*
*still waiting*
ok i think i will die an old spinster. wtf
HAHAHAHA..
I want 1 too..
great 1 ♥
Aiyah. even if u find a guy that satisfy all these criteria..u think u'll b happy? it's only human to keep wanting more..
Good luck n hope u can really find the rite 1 ........ :D
Vel:
haha if i didn't know better, i'd feel like u're trying to help another guy say good stuff in front of me. XDXD
josephine:
if ur bf is still studying, then at least he has a good/secure future, no worries bout that. i just don quite like guys who uses their parents money and don't work hard for themselves. =p and im so envious towards u now.... i also want my mr perfect4me. XDXD
chewei:
ya, im imperfect, so im perfect lor??? XDXD
cnigel:
diff generation diff expectations. XD
Liam:
haha my demand will drop once i hit late 20's. XDXD
copykate:
*high5* hahahahahahaha... u're like 2 years younger than me. i die also u not yet die la.. wtf...
Can i copy and paste that to cheez
so i ask him to read, and hint hint him?? LOLOLOL
Exist or not, I think it comes back to you :)
I believe love doesn't come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. It doesn't come to you, it just happens to you.
Perhaps he is already in your life? Just remember you never lose by loving, but you always will lose by holding back.
I learned over the years that being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
=)
Hi there, first time reading ur blog. Interesting topic. I'm obviously not a girl, but i don't think you will enjoy having that perfect of a boyfriend, unless ur a robot as well ^^
I know I am a complete stranger, but your blog cover was interesting so I continued on reading :-)
One comment about "your perfect guy", you basically want him to be somewhat fake in his feelings and just be like your pet-slave..., although, keep dreaming, you never know :-)
cuddlefish:
haha. directly tell him what u want la!!!
Han:
I like this.
"being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage."
zable:
haha it's just girl's nature to wanna have a fairytale in their life... =p
Dimitry:
Haha. who knows i might find someone who really is that way and not just faking it? I'll stop dreaming when Im near 30. XDXD
Nobody does, thus I said it before, keep dreaming :-)
haha :-)
i don agree with the statement of ur bf must look compatible with u.. what do u mean by look compatible? is it like u r thin, so u don like fat ppl? is it like this? if ppl wan to comment, u just ignore their comments.. in this case, u sounds like looking down for ppl that may be not so good looking.. in fact, i encourage those not so good looking one to opt for those good looking one..
anonymous:
no no... that's not what i mean. for me it's bout looking age compatible. i look a few years older than my age (old looking), so i preferably don't want to have a bf who looks younger than me. and also im big size for a girl, so i preferably don't want a bf who is smaller size than me. it's just what i want. im not telling others to want the same things as me.
Hey guys, since i posted here once, the e-mail notifications of others commenting here are being sent, thus, I am kinda stuck with reading what is being posted...lol :-)
Anonymous: (I assume you are a guy) wtf is your problem? we all just saying that it is difficult to find a guy who would meet all of the criterias that Jien Jun mentioned. That is all, nobody is critising her of why she has such criterias, that is her personal thing, we all like what we like... Everyone has a freedom of choice. The fact of acceptance is a totally different matter. If you are not 'The Guy', she wants according to her 'requirements for a bf' as reading your comment I assume you are not, so let it be. What is the problem??? I ain't 'The One' either, but so what? Don't be so judgmental of people's choices. It seems like you are trying to encourage her to like you, yet, you din even put your name...that is a phail...
If you agree or disagree, that is your opinion, we just saying that it is not easy, and we a smiling about you, you on the other hand sound quite angry and disappointed...relax wei...!
PS: why the fuck am I even saying all of these??? O.o *blink* *blink* Now I sound angry, but for a reason :-P
ya la, the choice i like don like me, so, what to do? ppl say 'don let go of the forest just because of a flower', but in my opinion, i am satisfy ady if there is one flower that loves me.. if no single flower loves me, i'd rather burn down the whole forests...nvm if u think i am asshole or wat.. since ppl like to say love need no reason, then don love also need no reason.. then i also say i need no reason if one day i start to burn forest..
ok, my name is roland ling..i don hv a google account..so, that's why i cant put the name..
Well, if you say that..., then - good luck finding the flower :-) haha
ya, i would surely find one, n must have one.. no matter i woo the girl the easy way, or the hard way, depending on the girl i set my eyes upon..
We are deviating from the point, this conversation is about Jun.
Then, dude, you must be either really crazy about the girl, or stupid to try getting her even if difficult. Love either exists or it doesn't, simple as that. And never force love, it would not bring the true happiness in life. We all have a mission in life, and we can never be ahead of it, thus if it is your destiny to meet a girl of your dreams, who would also care about you as much, it will happen one way or another. When people rush to get into relationship, they sometimes skip steps along the way, and therefore bring their relationship to quick hault and break up some time after. I advise you to be wise, and think of what you want. Some people are lucky enough that all turns out to be fine and get married and live well. Others, not so. Thus be smart, don be like some sort of despo maniac...you would scare many girls away.
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