Girls like to mention break up even when they don't mean it

Today I'm writing for the sake of sharing, and I hope you guys enjoy the post as much as I do writing it.

You know how girls when in a relationship, tend to mention the sentence "Let's break up" quite often especially during a couple's spat? Let's call the "let's break up" sentence, the LBU.

We all know only girls use the LBU line (admit it). Guys don't use the LBU at all unless they really mean it. Come on, why in the world would a guy go through all the trouble of getting a girl and then have it all wasted down the drain if he doesn't really want a break up?

Back to the main point. Girls use LBU like it's their bag. Girls have lotsa bags and they use them for different occasions. Just like in a relationship, the LBU is used for all sort of reasons. One thing for sure is, the bag is used to carry the girl's stuff. In the relationship wise, it's to gain the guy's attention. Most of the time, and I mean MOST of the time, girls use LBU even when they don't mean it. They just want the guys' attention.

I'm giving a wild guess that most guys don't really get what's the point of girls using LBU when they don't mean it. Guys hate it when the girls use LBU, I know. Just try to understand that the girls only want you guys to pay more attention to them, and for them to feel love from you guys again.

But it's a fact that these LBU often bring back the wrong kind of results. Instead of getting pampered and loved by your guy again, you might just be ending your relationship, for real.

I'm gonna share a personal story of mine which I had with one of my ex few years back when I was still darn young (I feel so old now).

So we were having an argument which I don't remember about what. Then I used the LBU on him. Expecting him to feel hurt and worried that I might actually leave him, he turned the whole situation around by telling me "No wonder my ex said those things bout you, and she was right!".

Can you even imagine what my reaction was? I was like WTF? What happened?

Turns out this previous ex of his, let's call her GIRL, told my then bf LALA, that I sent a message to GIRL's current bf, HOBO, teaching him how he can get a good fuck with GIRL.

These names are so confusing. I'll put it in a summary.

GIRL told LALA, I sent a Friendster message to HOBO, teaching him how to have a good fuck with GIRL.

In case you don't know, that was an absurd accusation coz I did no such thing and I swear I am innocent. Anyway, the worst thing was that, LALA actually believed GIRL rather than me, his own gf at the time. Why in the world would that whole story even make sense, I still don't know. HOBO is a guy, if he wants to fuck GIRL, I'm sure as hell he doesn't need my advice. 

Apparently it made sense to LALA that I would do something like that, so go figure. Anyway, I then confronted GIRL and told her off bout the accusation she made towards me. And I felt darn good that I finally cleared my name.

Unsurprisingly, GIRL went and made her lil report to LALA bout me telling her off. And guess what? LALA sided her and scolded me instead for being rude to her. Can you even imagine how hurt and betrayed I felt at that moment? (I'm hoping you don't coz it's a bad experience for anyone to go through)

And that marks the beginning of the end of our relationship. Thank goodness it's over now. I was the one that got broken off with btw. FML.

My point of the story, I'm just bitter that I had such an experience and I wanna rant it out although it happened many years ago. LOL.

And girls, try not to use LBU as often, you won't know what to expect. Good luck! =p