We're just different, that's all.

Ok this is a very random piece of rant that I must blog about now coz I'm just kinda hot up right now.

Was chatting with a guy I just got to know on gtalk moments ago.

Then I was curious and asked how come he has the time to chat with me instead of chatting with his girl.

He said she was busy and has work but they still message each other on and off. So I get it.

Then I proceeded into telling him my point of view, which is something like, if I'm in a relationship, I wouldn't bother to go online and chat with other people. Even if the bf is busy and is not chatting/texting with me, I wouldn't go online to chat with some other people/friends, and would just do my own stuff.

Then he just miraculously accuses me of telling him off to not continue flirting with me. (I haven't the slightest clue that we were flirting in the first place.)

Fine. Then he assumes that because I choose not to chat with other people when my bf is busy, means that I have no life. And then added on that I will learn someday and I have some growing up to do, so it is "never mind", quoted from him.

If that wasn't enough, he just had to add on saying I need to build my own personal space and I need to have my own life. I don't know about you but to me the whole sentence was translated as "go get a life".

Just because I choose to not chat with some other people/friends over the internet while the bf is busy means I have no life? I did not text the bf like every few other minutes nor did I disturbed him in anything that he is doing. I'm just not the kind of girls that is into small talks. If I can't gain anything from you, I don't wanna spend my time chatting with you over the internet while I have my own stuff to do.

Now you're gonna be all judgmental saying I only chat with people coz I wanna gain something from them. As if you're not? Gain something not as in material goods but it can be in any form. Something could be a friendship. Like I said, if I'm not interested to make new friends, why would I wanna go online and chat with people who always ends up in asking "Can I bring you out for a dinner or movie?" when they hardly even know me? And as for my real live friends, isn't it enough that we talk so much crap in real live that we still need to chat over the internet? Or maybe that's what you people do, IM your friends and asks them if they had their lunch. Sorry, but that's not me.

Just because I think differently and choose to act differently does not mean that you are right or that I'm wrong. We're just different people who thinks differently. So please drop the "suggestions" or "critics" about how I live my life and stop acting like you are any better than me. We are just different, and that is all there is to it.

*p/s: I've got no bf right now, I was just merely trying to state my opinion IF I were to be in a relationship.