Wanting to be single even when you're attached?

Finally I have the chance and time and mood to write something other than bout myself. Like seriously, to write something like this need time okay... I can't every now and then just bullshit whatever I want, they have to be true. So read on and let me know what you think?

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It's really ironic that people who are in a relationship wants to be single, and people who aren't in a relationship wants to be attached.

This is a known fact, everyone knows it. But have you ever thought bout the reason behind this ironic fact?

As the saying goes, the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. True enough, but then there's also another saying that goes, if the grass on the other side of the fence is greener, then it's time to water your lawn.

You see, people who just got into a relationship doesn't want to be single. They couldn't even imagine being single and without their partner. These "wanting to be single" thoughts only appears after bout let's say, half a year or maybe more through out the relationship? That's when both party gets to know each other better, and that's when all the quarreling and disagreements comes in too.

In case nobody knows, I am single and I feel lonely sometimes especially in the middle of the night. So I'd probably get some friends to have casual chats over the msn, and we will talk bout my so called depression. These friends more or less are often attached. And when I tell them I feel lonely, they would say, "Single is the best, I wanna be single also...".

Can I say bullshit? Wanna be single then break up la, join the club. Don't just whine there saying single is the best and do nothing about it. Freaking don't understand people who have the blessing of being with someone they love but doesn't know how to appreciate it, instead they go around telling outsiders that they prefer to be single. (Insiders refers to only you and your partner, anyone else are outsiders.)

I mean, don't you have a brain? Think bout how your partner will feel if he/she knew that you prefer being single than being with them? Imagine if your partner does the same thing to you, whining to all his/her friends that they would rather be single than to be with you.

Then again, there will be explanations like, "You don't understand... There're a lot of problems between us, it's complicated... etc etc etc"

You know what? Ya, I don't understand. You got problems. Who doesn't? Heck, I have problems even when I'm single, let alone being in a relationship. So? Solve it la. Whining bout it and being dissatisfied coz you have problems doesn't change anything. If you're really that unhappy in a relationship, do something, instead of being disrespectful to your partner. And no, even if you're just saying it for the sake of complaining to a friend, it still doesn't justify your actions.

I am just really sick of people telling me that being single is the best and they wanna be single, when they are already in a relationship. If you can't appreciate what you have, you don't deserve to be loved nor to love anyone else.

Oh oh, btw, in continuation of the above 2 sayings, I have a better one.

If you can't grow your grass greener than the other side of the fence, mowed them all and pour cement over your lawn. Problem solved. XDXD